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Here's the core framework.","2026-04-01","https:\u002F\u002Fhilainie.com\u002Fblog\u002Fglossary\u002Fattachment-theory\u002F",5,"general","Attachment theory is a psychological framework, developed by John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth, explaining how early caregiver bonds shape four distinct relationship patterns that persist into adult life.",[16,19,22,25],{"q":17,"a":18},"What is attachment theory?","Attachment theory is a psychological framework explaining how early bonds with caregivers shape our relationship patterns throughout life. It identifies four attachment styles — secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized — that describe how people seek and respond to closeness and intimacy.",{"q":20,"a":21},"Who developed attachment theory?","John Bowlby developed the foundational framework in the 1950s-1970s, drawing on observations of children separated from caregivers. Mary Ainsworth developed the experimental research (the Strange Situation procedure) that identified the core attachment patterns.",{"q":23,"a":24},"How does attachment theory apply to romantic relationships?","In adult relationships, partners function as attachment figures — people we turn to for safety, comfort, and reassurance. Our attachment style shapes how we respond to closeness, distance, conflict, and perceived rejection in ways that mirror our early patterns.",{"q":26,"a":27},"Can adults change their attachment style?","Yes. Research supports the concept of 'earned security' — developing a more secure attachment style through consistently safe relationships, therapy, or self-awareness work. 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Ainsworth's research identified three initial patterns based on how responsive caregivers were: secure (consistent care produced confident exploration), anxious (inconsistent care produced hypervigilance about the caregiver's availability), and avoidant (unavailable care produced self-sufficiency and suppression of attachment needs). A fourth pattern — disorganized — was added later, associated with frightening or chaotic caregiving.",{"type":49,"tag":65,"props":77,"children":79},{"id":78},"why-it-matters-in-adult-relationships",[80],{"type":54,"value":81},"Why It Matters in Adult Relationships",{"type":49,"tag":50,"props":83,"children":84},{},[85],{"type":54,"value":86},"Adult attachment mirrors infant attachment in important ways. In romantic relationships, your partner becomes an attachment figure — someone you turn to for safety and comfort. Your attachment style shapes your defaults: how much closeness you seek, how you respond to perceived rejection, what happens when you feel insecure in the relationship.",{"type":49,"tag":50,"props":88,"children":89},{},[90],{"type":54,"value":91},"Crucially: attachment styles aren't fixed. Consistently safe relationships can shift insecure patterns toward security over time — what researchers call \"earned security.\"",{"title":7,"searchDepth":93,"depth":93,"links":94},2,[95,96],{"id":67,"depth":93,"text":70},{"id":78,"depth":93,"text":81},"markdown","content:blog:glossary:attachment-theory.md","content","blog\u002Fglossary\u002Fattachment-theory.md","blog\u002Fglossary\u002Fattachment-theory","md",{"loc":4},1778952668669]